Tuesday, January 5, 2010

A Matter Of Decorum...

I am a rather formal person & etiquette is not lost on me. This is a general inquiry, but I am going to give a concrete example. I met someone in 2009 that I liked a great deal. This gentleman is smart, talented, interesting, funny, & the Husband approves & likes him too. I have let this person know that meeting him, getting to know him, & sharing some of our experiences & opinions with him was a lovely thing. My dilemma? Is it bad manners to mention that you think someone is sexy/hot/desirable? Is it bad etiquette to mention to a new acquaintance that you think they are really swell in every way, you want to stay in touch & possibly become friends, & oh, by the way… you find them very fuckable? I am not talking about actually putting the moves on the person, but just adding that you find them engaged in your libido, & that is just another point on the check off list of traits you like about them?



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